Hey everyone,
I’m new to gaining and still figuring out what works for me. I’m very slim and athletic (50 kg, 1.65 m) and I’ve been trying to put on weight on my own for a few weeks now — but it’s honestly pretty hard to stay consistent without someone pushing or guiding me.
So that's why I am here - I’m looking for a feeder or FA who enjoys the financial side of this dynamic as well. Someone who likes supporting my progress, covering food, setting incentives, or rewarding goals. Knowing that someone invests in my progress, decides what I should focus on, and has the ability to “reward or withhold” based on how I’m doing, that creates a psychological tension that I find appealing. It’s not just about the food, but about the feeling of giving up a bit of control, trusting someone, and letting them guide the process in a way that’s both supportive and dominant
One important thing: I’m not aiming to become obese. I want to keep things somewhat healthy and go in a chubbier direction at first — and I need that to be respected. This is about exploring the kink safely and at a pace that feels good for me.
If you’re responsible, generous, and into this kind of dynamic, feel free to message me!
I’m new to gaining and still figuring out what works for me. I’m very slim and athletic (50 kg, 1.65 m) and I’ve been trying to put on weight on my own for a few weeks now — but it’s honestly pretty hard to stay consistent without someone pushing or guiding me.
So that's why I am here - I’m looking for a feeder or FA who enjoys the financial side of this dynamic as well. Someone who likes supporting my progress, covering food, setting incentives, or rewarding goals. Knowing that someone invests in my progress, decides what I should focus on, and has the ability to “reward or withhold” based on how I’m doing, that creates a psychological tension that I find appealing. It’s not just about the food, but about the feeling of giving up a bit of control, trusting someone, and letting them guide the process in a way that’s both supportive and dominant
One important thing: I’m not aiming to become obese. I want to keep things somewhat healthy and go in a chubbier direction at first — and I need that to be respected. This is about exploring the kink safely and at a pace that feels good for me.
If you’re responsible, generous, and into this kind of dynamic, feel free to message me!
2 months
